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SexySensual Sex Games...
Some sexual events are best facilitated with some structure, and in that spirit the following sex games are
presented. We first compiled this list back in 1995, and it has worked very well for us... Have fun!
TRUTH OR DARE
1 The questioner selects a victim.
2 The questioner asks a question of the victim.
3 The victim must either answer TRUTHFULLY, to the questioner's satisfaction,
or, if the victim does not want to answer the question, accept and perform a 'dare'.
4 In the case of a dare, the questioner gives a task to be done by the victim, which the victim MUST perform.
Note that it is considered unfair to use a dare to obtain the answer to the declined question.
5 After the victim has either answered to the questioner's satisfaction, or performed the dare, the victim becomes
the new questioner and selects a fresh victim. Note that the victim cannot question the person who just asked them a
question (i.e. no immediate revenge).
6 At all times, a victim receiving the dare may object to the dare if it truly violates their personal ethics (such as
being asked to perform anything sexual in a dare, when the person is monogamous, etc). In that case, another dare should be selected.
Alt TRUTH OR DARE version:
Keep the Truth questions sexual, and have Dare slips. The initial Dare slips can be pretty light-weight, with more
significant stuff later. If someone doesn't take a Truth, they get a Dare. If someone's Truth is not believed (you think
he/she lied) or if the Dare is refused or failed, there is a Punishment. Initial Punishments would be taking off items of clothing.
Once all clothing is removed, the Punishment slips should become more interesting, i.e. sexual favours. This is actually a sexual
game for 3 or more people. An example Dare might be, "Suck 3 women's nipples while blindfolded, and
then say who's nipples were whose. Don't touch the women." It's considered inappropriate to refuse on grounds of sexual
orientation, but you could always have your own rules.
CONTROL
One of those sex games that require you to be kind of close to a person (having at least had foreplay). The rules are simple - you
and your SO sit/stand/lay as close to each other as possible without touching or kissing, but rather trying to deny the other the
satisfaction of knowing you have no control. All the while you're in their face whispering really erotic things that you will do
to them if they give in. No touching, but you try and get as close to it as possible. Or if there is touching, just no touching or
anything sexual. You build up an incredible tension if this goes on for a good 15 to 20 minutes and at then end, when someone
finally gives in, you don't care who won.
Another is sort of a related sex game in which one person is given 1 minute to get a "raise" out of the other (for guys its easier to
tell, so I lost a lot of the time) by kissing, or heavy petting (over the clothes). The first person to lose has to do what the other
wants first.
I HAVE NEVER...
Person A says: I have never X (for example: I have never had sex in public). All those who have done what person A has never done
are either asked a TRUTH or given a DARE by person A. The truths or dares should be done quickly so the game doesn't bog down.
If A can't think of anything they should just pass.
Person B then says: I have never....
BARTOK
Basic idea: 52 cards, 5 each, play goes to left, playing cards on same suit or rank, with one card left declare "Bartok" or other
players make you draw 5 cards. Also draw one card for asking a question or breaking other rules (developed later). Winner is
first player to have no cards left. Winner of each round declares a new rule, rules are cumulative...
Play of a particular card may require you to:
- hug the person to your left
- kiss the person next to you
- remove an article of clothing
- remove someone else's piece of clothing and keep/wear it
- tie up the person to your right
- masturbate yourself/another player
- perform oral sex on someone for x minutes/until your next turn
The beauty of this sex game is that it can begin fairly tamely and rapidly progress to any extent, limited only by your imagination.
COUPLES
Get a group of people who are willing to get together, say once a week for several weeks. Best is couples, but you could revise if
there are singles in the group. The first time everyone gets together you are only allowed to touch yourself, blindfolded.
Basically everyone gets themselves off and you hear but do not see.
Second time is the same, only you remove your blindfold.
Third time you are allowed to only touch others
Fourth time you can kiss
Fifth time you can lick, then suck, and more.
The real fun is bringing in new players. The whole group can do it all, but the newcomer can only touch self, blindfolded and group
can do nothing. Next time blindfold comes off. Next new person can touch and be touched by others, etc. If everyone is
in a hurry, you can make the steps every 15 - 30 minutes, change the steps, etc.
DEPRIVATION
A game that's good for breaking the ice, although it's not explicitly sexual: The goal of the game is to
show that one's self is the most "deprived" person in the group.
Seat everyone in a circle. If there are N people, give each of them N counters - matchsticks or playing cards work well. Each
person in turn proposes a manner in which they have been deprived by saying "I have never done X." (Players are on their
honour to tell the truth). Each person who "has" done X then has to give one counter to the player who made the statement.
This goes around and around. Eventually, one person runs out of counters, at which time he has to drop out of the game, and each
person remaining gives up two (yes, two) counters. (This may cause further drop outs). Thus the number of counters remaining in
the game is appropriate for the number of players remaining.) Last person left in wins.
Toward the end of the game, people start to get greedy to win and their inhibitions about what they will claim to be deprived of, drop.
If someone is willing to skip the facade of playing a game, but would like something similar then:
If only couples are involved: Take turns playing one upmanship. Couple #1 goes first, couple #2 attempts to "outdo"
couple #1, and so on... In an open situation "outdo" could involve actions on other people/couples.
No rules, no cards, no dice.
If any singles are involved: Not fair to team up singles as couples, either... Player #1 suggests "activity" for any two
other players... those two players get to define an "activity" for player #1. If the pair complete their task, then player
1 must complete his/her task. His/her task need not be a solo act. "Play" then rotates to a volunteer from the pair, or
the next person alphabetically.
An interesting variation on the couples sex games... Swap partners and play as usual. "I can't believe you did that! Okay, then...
watch this!" Amazing how the game escalates much more rapidly.
SexySensual Sex Games
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